LGBT people are discriminated against, mocked, beaten and murdered, all for doing things you get to do without question. You get to go back to your privileged status in the world — we can only be us. If it's not for you, stop thinking that without complying you won't find partners. Stonewall is a charity that campaigns for equal rights for lesbians, gay men and bisexual people. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Whether or not it ruins the sex mood is up to you. All sexually active people do.
Sex is emotional.
Douching should be minimal. Gay people and straight people are equally promiscuous. Going too fast or too rough can be painful I recommend a thick, silicone-based lube for the insertion tip. Sex is emotional.
It's a shame, though, because